"It was never about discovering something new about myself, but uncovering the truth that was always within me."
I am a wife, a mother, and a devoted follower of Jesus Christ, but I spent the majority of my life struggling to believe I was loved personally by my Savior and Father in Heaven.
I have endured intense trials and through them learned tools and techniques on how to free my mind, open my heart, receive love, and find joy again–something I believed was unattainable after going through my second divorce.
Among these pages, you will find that I share my personal struggles (and subsequent triumphs) with debilitating depression and anxiety; parenting children with mental health challenges; betrayal trauma; verbal and emotional abuse; divorce; lengthy custody battles; and navigating a faith where I often felt I did not belong. I choose to be raw and vulnerable about difficult and painful topics to encourage others to hold onto their faith when it feels impossible, and to feel hope when it appears there is none.
Writing and sharing my journey has brought much healing to me and provided me with “evidence” that I was never actually alone, I was always loved by my Heavenly Father, and I was stronger than I ever knew. I have emerged from the darkness I used to feel, and am now enjoying so much light on my journey; a Light that was always there, but I had to learn to see.
I am excited (and a bit terrified) to share my experiences to help you have hope in your hardships and faith in the possibilities that extend beyond what you can currently see.
I have learned how to be a Wayfinder, and I will help you find your way amidst the storms of your life and discover the Light within the darkness. I promise you, it is already there.
If you struggle to see past the turmoil of your storms, then come on in.
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Find the Light that awaits you.
I am committed to helping others build their emotional, spiritual, and mental resilience by empowering them to face life's challenges with strength, grace, adaptability, and a growth-centered mindset. By learning how to honor ALL of your emotions (not just the positive ones), you can transform your obstacles into opportunities for growth.
Bethany's wisdom and insight into the Laws of Thought are truly remarkable. Her ability to break down complex principles and provide practical applications for everyday life situations is invaluable. What sets Bethany apart is her kindness and grace – she meets you right where you are, without judgment, and gently guides you towards mastering your mindset and thought patterns.
Through her mentoring and mindset mastery classes at Rare Faith, Bethany creates a safe, empowering space for personal growth. She leads by example, openly sharing her own life experiences and processes, which is both inspiring and encouraging. Bethany has a gift for empowering others to become intentional with their thoughts and to cultivate new habits that align with their desired outcomes in life.
Working with Bethany is a transformative experience. Her authentic, non-judgmental approach coupled with her depth of knowledge makes her an exceptional mentor and guide on the journey towards mindset mastery.
Bethany was truly heaven sent in my life. I was at a low point feeling overwhelmed with financial obligations. My son recently had several oral surgeries and dental implants. He was born with only five
permanent teeth due to the genetic condition of Ectodermal Dysplasia. We had spent $90,000 out of
pocket and I was feeling overwhelmed. My Christmas gift to myself was Mindset Mastery.
Bethany was such an amazing coach. When I would be struggling, she listened, she helped me work through it and apply the principles. I was always left our meetings feeling inspired and uplifted. I finally felt HOPE!!! We had a rental that we took a leap of faith and turned into an Airbnb, which was successful! She inspired me with her stories of rare faith and how she has used it to be led to an amazing spouse and the home she lived in.
One of the traits I loved most about Bethany is that she was real. She would often say it is okay to have all types of feelings and emotions, and she guided me on how to work through emotions and thoughts and how to change the way I was thinking. I loved that I could be real in her classes and she totally
understood, but then would always give me ideas of how to move forward.
If you are looking for greater hope in your life or needing help to stop spiraling down in your thoughts, then I highly recommend Bethany as a coach! I thought about doing the Mindset Mastery self-guided course, but I know without a doubt that it wouldn’t have impacted me to the level of taking the course
with Bethany coaching it. My life has been drastically changed because I now understand the laws of
thought and know that I have the ability to create!
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“Gratitude will shift you to a higher frequency, and you will attract much better things.” - Rhonda Byrne
I remember when I experienced the best application of the Law of Relativity since learning about universal laws. It’s a moment that will forever be burned into my memory, both as a source of humor and a clear example of how this law works.
The truth is, I used to resent this particular law. I didn’t appreciate being in really poor living conditions and then reminded, “at least you have a roof over your head.” Honestly, it would make me angry, despite my understanding of these laws.
Just before moving out of a rental we had been living in, one day the sewer started backing up under the toilet….again….and I started laughing. In fact, it was one of those hallelujah-chorus-moments where I felt so grateful for a Father in Heaven who is so aware of me.
Ironically, this same toilet, same sewer system, and same exact scenario had occurred just a few months before this. At that time, I was on the verge of breaking from the stress. Chaos surrounded me—personal family issues, a cross-country trip to help my daughter move in temporarily, and business pressures had left me feeling completely overwhelmed. For the seven months we lived in that rental, the plumbing had been a living nightmare, and when I flushed the toilet, only to have the sewer water spewed into the house, I lost it, and it took me about a week to recover emotionally from the meltdown.
It really wasn’t just that one flush. There was the leaking sewer pipe in the basement, an unseen leak from the upstairs bathroom that caused a section of my 5-year-old’s bedroom ceiling to collapse, and worst of all - a broken pipe that flooded our beautiful back yard - my ONLY place of respite from that dreadful house we lived in.
After significant pressure on the landlord and six plumber visits, the issues subsided enough for us to manage, but I knew we had to move. I was even advised by friend to relocate my daughters to a more suitable home before the cold winter set in. The landlord reluctantly let us out of our lease early with no penalties.
That sounds simple, but securing housing in our area was like finding a needle in a haystack. On top of that, I had no consistent income, and we had very specific needs that had to be met. As the move-out date approached with no housing secured for my daughters and I, I had begun to doubt my decision. The plumbing was at least functional by then, so had I been wrong? Still, I kept remembering the peace I felt when I had finally made the difficult decision to move.
Then, just days before our move-out date, I flushed the toilet and saw it—the plumbing was running slow again. It was painfully obvious that it was only a matter of time before the sewer backed up into the house again.
I did a happy dance. In that moment, I KNEW. I knew the Lord had just provided me with tangible evidence that there was no need to doubt. Everything was exactly as it should be, and I realized unseen help had kept our sewer cleared all that time. The stress had been held at bay long enough for me to focus on the next steps in front of me.
Same scenario, but this time I saw it differently. And I laughed. I laughed because never in a million years would I have thought a plumbing problem would become a source of profound gratitude. And that’s when it hit me—THIS is how the Law of Relativity works!